Esther 17 - Characteristics of Strength and Dignity

I would like to close our study in the book of Esther by sharing with you some characteristics that Chuck Swindoll mentioned in his book on Esther. The first is that she exhibited a grace-filled charm and elegance. We first notice this when she was brought under the care of Hegai. We see that she pleased him and found favor with him. The literal translation of (2:9) is “she lifted up grace” before Hegai. We notice later that she won the favor of everyone who saw her (2:15).

The second characteristic we notice is that she lifted up unusual restraint and control. We also saw this trait exhibited in a couple of places. First, she did not reveal her identity. Secondly, when she revealed Haman’s plot, she waited until she felt the time was right to tell the king; the second banquet. She could keep a secret. As you develop close friendships that becomes especially important. If you can keep confidences, your friends will respect you much more. It is especially important to keep the confidences of your husband and family.

The third characteristic is that Esther maintained a continually teachable spirit. Some learn things easily and others are “hard learners”. It doesn’t mean that they are ignorant, but that they have a difficult time accepting counsel or learning lessons from experience. We learn in the book of Esther that she had a pattern of listening to Mordecai and accepting his counsel. She did the same with Hegai. Those who have experience and are wise can help you avoid some difficult and painful experiences if you will listen to their advice.

The fourth trait we see in Esther is that she exhibited an unselfish modesty and authenticity. Remember when her turn came to go into the king (2:12-15). She had the opportunity to take with her anything she desired. She took nothing except what Hegai suggested. This was the chance of a lifetime for her, but she does not succumb to the temptation around her; the superficiality, the selfishness, the seduction, the self-centeredness. Her life did not revolve around her physical appearance. Please don’t try to be someone you are not.

Next we see that Esther modeled a kind winsomeness, regardless of her surroundings. She found favor in the eyes of all who saw her (2:15), including the king (2:17). Winsomeness is being pleasant, delightful, attractive in an engaging way.

Finally, she displayed a respect for authority. Notice that even when she became queen (2:18-20) she remembered the wisdom of Mordecai and followed his counsel. There will always be those who have some authority over you. It is in your best interest to respect that authority.

I pray that these characteristics might describe you just as they described Esther.